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In an emergency, call 911. These lines answer around the clock, from anywhere in the U.S.
City dating safety guides
Local resources, getting to and from your date, first-date neighborhoods and more.
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Dating safety by state
Tap a state for its local 24/7 help lines and whether you can text 911 there.
Northeast
Connecticut
Emergency: call 911. Connecticut accepts texts to 911 statewide when calling isn't possible.
- Domestic and dating violence, 24/7 (Hartford, CT): CT Safe Connect, run by the Connecticut Coalition Against Domestic Violence, call (888) 774-2900
Sources: City of Hartford: Police Department contacts · CT DESPP: Statewide Text-to-911 launch · CT Safe Connect
Maine
Emergency: call 911. Maine accepts texts to 911 statewide when calling isn't possible, though texts sent near the state line may not reach a Maine dispatcher.
- Domestic and dating violence, 24/7 (Augusta, ME): Family Violence Project, serving Kennebec and Somerset counties, helpline 1-877-890-7788
Sources: Maine Telecommunications Relay Services Council: Text to 911 now available throughout Maine · City of Augusta: Contact Us · Family Violence Project
Massachusetts 1 city guide
Emergency: call 911. Massachusetts accepts texts to 911 statewide when calling isn't possible.
- Sexual assault, 24/7 (Boston, MA): Boston Area Rape Crisis Center hotline, call 800-841-8371
City guide: Dating in Boston, MA
Sources: Mass.gov: Text to 911 · Boston Police Department: Emergency 9-1-1 · Boston Area Rape Crisis Center · MBTA: Nightlife guide
New Hampshire
Emergency: call 911.
- Sexual assault, domestic and dating violence, 24/7 (Concord, NH): New Hampshire Coalition Against Domestic and Sexual Violence statewide helpline, call 1-866-644-3574
Sources: City of Concord: Police Department directory · NH Coalition Against Domestic and Sexual Violence · NHCADSV: Find your local crisis center
New York 1 city guide
Emergency: call 911. Text-to-911 is available in all five boroughs when calling isn't possible.
- Domestic and dating violence, 24/7 (New York City): Safe Horizon, 800-621-HOPE (4673)
- Rape and sexual assault, 24/7 (New York City): Safe Horizon, 212-227-3000
- Domestic violence, 24/7 (Albany, NY): Equinox 24-hour domestic violence hotline, call 518-432-7865
City guide: Dating in New York City
Sources: NYPD: Victim services resources and hotlines · Safe Horizon: Hotline · City of Albany: Albany Police Department directory · Albany Police Department on Nixle (Non-emergencies: 518-438-4000) · Equinox: Domestic Violence Services
Rhode Island
Emergency: call 911.
- Sexual assault, domestic and dating violence, 24/7 (Providence, RI): Rhode Island's statewide 24/7 helpline, answered by Day One and the Rhode Island Coalition Against Domestic Violence, call 1-800-494-8100
Sources: Providence Police Department: Contact us · Day One · Day One: About · Rhode Island Coalition Against Domestic Violence
Vermont
Emergency: call 911. Vermont accepts texts to 911 statewide when calling isn't possible, though texts sent near the state line may not reach a Vermont dispatcher.
- Domestic and dating violence, 24/7 (Montpelier, VT): Circle, serving Washington County, confidential hotline 1-877-543-9498
Sources: Vermont Enhanced 911 Board: Text 911 · City of Montpelier: Police Department · Circle: Home · Circle: About
Mid-Atlantic
Delaware
Emergency: call 911. Delaware accepts texts to 911 statewide when calling isn't possible.
- Domestic and dating violence, 24/7 (Dover, DE): People's Place SAFE 24-hour hotline for Kent and Sussex counties, call (302) 422-8058
Sources: Dover Police Department: File a police report · Delaware.gov: Text-to-911 feature now available statewide · People's Place: Contact · Delaware DVCC: 24-hour hotline numbers
Maryland 1 city guide
Emergency: call 911. Text-to-911 is available in Baltimore City and every Maryland county when calling isn't possible. Anne Arundel County and the rest of Maryland accept texts to 911 when calling isn't possible.
- Sexual assault, 24/7 (Baltimore, MD): TurnAround, Inc. helpline 443-279-0379, or text 410-498-5956
- Domestic and dating violence, 24/7 (Baltimore, MD): House of Ruth Maryland, 410-889-7884
City guide: Dating in Baltimore, MD
Sources: Maryland: Text-to-911 · Baltimore City: Important phone numbers · TurnAround, Inc. · House of Ruth Maryland · Maryland MTA · City of Annapolis: Police Department directory
New Jersey
Emergency: call 911. New Jersey accepts texts to 911 statewide when calling isn't possible.
- Sexual assault, domestic and dating violence, 24/7 (Trenton, NJ): Younity (formerly Womanspace) 24-hour hotline for Mercer County, call 609-394-9000
Sources: Trenton Police Department · Trenton Police Department: Public information · NJ Office of the Attorney General: Statewide Text-to-911 · Younity (formerly Womanspace) · Younity: Get help
Pennsylvania 1 city guide
Emergency: call 911. Text-to-911 is available in all 67 Pennsylvania counties when calling isn't possible.
- Sexual assault, 24/7 (Philadelphia, PA): WOAR Philadelphia Center Against Sexual Violence, 215-985-3333
- Domestic and dating violence, 24/7 (Philadelphia, PA): Philadelphia Domestic Violence Hotline, 1-866-723-3014
- Sexual assault, domestic and dating violence, 24/7 (Harrisburg, PA): YWCA Greater Harrisburg 24/7 hotline, call 1-800-654-1211
City guide: Dating in Philadelphia, PA
Sources: Pennsylvania: Contact 911 · Philadelphia Police: Contacts · WOAR · City of Philadelphia: Domestic Violence Hotline · SEPTA: How to ride · City of Harrisburg: Bureau of Police
Virginia 2 city guides
Emergency: call 911. Arlington also accepts text-to-911 when calling isn't possible ("call if you can, text if you can't"). Richmond accepts texts to 911 when calling isn't possible.
- Domestic and sexual violence, 24/7 (Arlington, VA): Doorways Domestic & Sexual Violence Hotline, 703-237-0881
- Sexual assault, domestic and dating violence, 24/7 (Richmond, VA): YWCA Richmond regional hotline, call or text 804-612-6126
City guides: Dating in Arlington, VA · Dating in Richmond, VA
Sources: Arlington County Police: Contact · Arlington County Project PEACE: Doorways hotline · City of Richmond: Emergency Communications · YWCA Richmond: Get help · GRTC Pulse
Washington, DC 1 city guide
Emergency: call 911.
- Sexual assault, 24/7 (Washington, DC): DC Rape Crisis Center, 202-333-7273
City guide: Dating in Washington, DC
Sources: MPD: Tip lines and non-emergency · DC Office of Victim Services: DC Victim Hotline · Georgetown University: DC Rape Crisis Center
West Virginia
Emergency: call 911.
- Domestic and dating violence, 24/7 (Charleston, WV): YWCA Charleston 24-hour domestic violence helpline, call 304-340-3549 or 800-681-8663
Sources: Charleston WV Police Department: File a report · YWCA Charleston
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Alabama
Emergency: call 911. Texting 911 is available statewide in Alabama when calling isn't possible.
- Domestic and dating violence, 24/7 (Montgomery, AL): Family Sunshine Center crisis line, call 334-263-0218 or 800-650-6522
Sources: City of Montgomery: Police Department · Alabama 911 Board: Text for 9-1-1 · Family Sunshine Center
Arkansas
Emergency: call 911.
- Domestic and dating violence, 24/7 (Little Rock, AR): Women & Children First crisis hotline, call 800-332-4443 or 501-376-3219
Sources: City of Little Rock: Contact the LRPD · Women & Children First · Rock Region METRO: Blue Line streetcar schedule
Florida 1 city guide
Emergency: call 911. Miami-Dade County accepts texts to 911 when calling isn't possible. Leon County, including Tallahassee, accepts texts to 911 when calling isn't possible.
- Sexual assault, 24/7 (Miami, FL): Roxcy Bolton Rape Treatment Center at Jackson Health, call 305-585-7273
- Sexual assault, domestic and dating violence, 24/7 (Tallahassee, FL): Refuge House 24-hour hotline, call 850-681-2111
City guide: Dating in Miami, FL
Sources: City of Miami Beach: Text to 911 in Miami-Dade · Miami Police Department: Directory · Jackson Health: Crisis and Sexual Assault Helpline · Miami-Dade County: Metrorail · Miami-Dade County: Metromover · City of Tallahassee: TPD online crime reporting (non-emergency Communications Center number)
Georgia 1 city guide
Emergency: call 911.
- Sexual assault, 24/7 (Atlanta, GA): Grady Rape Crisis Center, call (404) 616-4861
City guide: Dating in Atlanta, GA
Sources: Atlanta Police Department: E911 · Grady Health: Rape Crisis Center · MARTA: Train schedules
Kentucky
Emergency: call 911.
- Domestic and dating violence, 24/7 (Frankfort, KY): GreenHouse17 crisis line, call 800-544-2022
Sources: City of Frankfort: Police Department · GreenHouse17 · GreenHouse17: Counties served
Louisiana
Emergency: call 911.
- Sexual assault, 24/7 (Baton Rouge, LA): STAR (Sexual Trauma Awareness and Response) hotline, call 855-435-7827 (855-435-STAR)
Sources: City of Baton Rouge: Non-Emergency · STAR: Sexual Trauma Awareness and Response · City of Baton Rouge: Domestic Violence Resources
Mississippi
Emergency: call 911.
We're still verifying a local 24/7 line here. Until then, the national hotlines above answer around the clock, from anywhere in the U.S.
North Carolina 1 city guide
Emergency: call 911. Raleigh and Wake County accept texts to 911 when calling isn't possible.
- Sexual assault, domestic and dating violence, 24/7 (Raleigh, NC): InterAct of Wake County 24-hour crisis line, call (919) 828-7740
City guide: Dating in Raleigh, NC
Sources: City of Raleigh: Police · City of Raleigh: 911 - Call when you can, text if you can't · InterAct of Wake County
South Carolina
Emergency: call 911.
- Domestic and dating violence, 24/7 (Columbia, SC): Sistercare crisis line, call (803) 765-9428
Sources: City of Columbia: Columbia-Richland 9-1-1 Communications Center · Sistercare
Tennessee 1 city guide
Emergency: call 911.
- Domestic and dating violence, 24/7 (Nashville, TN): YWCA Nashville & Middle Tennessee Crisis & Support Helpline, call 800-334-4628 or text 615-983-5170
City guide: Dating in Nashville, TN
Sources: Metro Nashville: Department of Emergency Communications · YWCA Nashville & Middle Tennessee
Midwest
Illinois 1 city guide
Emergency: call 911.
- Domestic and dating violence, 24/7 (Chicago, IL): Illinois Domestic Violence Hotline from The Network, call or text 877-863-6338
- Domestic and dating violence, 24/7 (Springfield, IL): Sojourn Shelter & Services crisis hotline, serving Sangamon County, 217-726-5200
City guide: Dating in Chicago, IL
Sources: City of Chicago: Police Department · The Network: Illinois Domestic Violence Hotline · CTA: Red Line · CTA: Blue Line · CTA: Schedules · City of Springfield: Police Department
Indiana 1 city guide
Emergency: call 911. Indiana accepts texts to 911 in all 92 counties when calling isn't possible.
- Domestic and dating violence, 24/7 (Indianapolis, IN): The Julian Center crisis line, (317) 920-9320
City guide: Dating in Indianapolis, IN
Sources: Indiana Statewide 911 Board: Text to 911 press release (PDF) · IMPD official alert (Nixle), contact section · The Julian Center: About
Iowa
Emergency: call 911.
- Domestic violence, 24/7 (Des Moines, IA): Children & Families of Iowa local crisis hotline, call (515) 243-6147
Sources: City of Des Moines Police: Contact · Children & Families of Iowa · Children & Families of Iowa: Endow Urbandale grant assists CFI's domestic violence shelter and services
Kansas
Emergency: call 911.
- Sexual assault and domestic violence, 24/7 (Topeka, KS): YWCA Northeast Kansas hotline, call (888) 822-2983
Sources: City of Topeka: File a Police Report · YWCA Northeast Kansas
Michigan
Emergency: call 911.
- Domestic and dating violence, 24/7 (Lansing, MI): EVE (End Violent Encounters) crisis line, 517-372-5572, then press 1
Sources: EVE, Inc.
Minnesota 1 city guide
Emergency: call 911. Minnesota accepts texts to 911 statewide when calling isn't possible.
- Sexual assault, 24/7 (Saint Paul, MN): SOS Sexual Violence Services, Ramsey County, call 651-266-1000
City guide: Dating in Saint Paul, MN
Sources: City of Saint Paul: Police Department · Minnesota DPS Emergency Communication Networks: Text 911 · Ramsey County: SOS Sexual Violence Services
Missouri
Emergency: call 911.
- Sexual assault and abuse, 24/7 (Jefferson City, MO): Rape and Abuse Crisis Service (RACS) hotline, call 1-800-303-0013
Sources: City of Jefferson: Police Department · Rape and Abuse Crisis Service (RACS)
Nebraska
Emergency: call 911.
- Sexual assault and domestic violence, 24/7 (Lincoln, NE): Voices of Hope crisis line, call (402) 475-7273
Sources: City of Lincoln: Police Department · Voices of Hope Lincoln
North Dakota
Emergency: call 911. North Dakota accepts texts to 911 statewide when calling isn't possible.
- Sexual assault, domestic and dating violence, 24/7 (Bismarck, ND): Abused Adult Resource Center crisis line, call 1-866-341-7009
Sources: City of Bismarck: Police Department · North Dakota 911: Text to 9-1-1 · Abused Adult Resource Center
Ohio 1 city guide
Emergency: call 911.
- Sexual assault, 24/7 (Columbus, OH): OhioHealth Sexual Assault Response Network of Central Ohio (SARNCO) helpline, (844) 644-6435
City guide: Dating in Columbus, OH
Sources: City of Columbus: Contact the Division of Police · City of Columbus: 911 Emergency Information (PDF) · OhioHealth: SARNCO · COTA: Late night service expansion beginning May 5
South Dakota
Emergency: call 911. South Dakota accepts texts to 911 statewide when calling isn't possible.
We're still verifying a local 24/7 line here. Until then, the national hotlines above answer around the clock, from anywhere in the U.S.
Sources: South Dakota Department of Public Safety: Text to 911 · City of Pierre: Police Department directory
Wisconsin
Emergency: call 911. Dane County, which includes Madison, accepts texts to 911 when calling isn't possible.
- Domestic and dating violence, 24/7 (Madison, WI): Domestic Abuse Intervention Services (DAIS) help line, call (608) 251-4445 or text (608) 420-4638
Sources: City of Madison Police: Contact · UW-Madison Police: If You Don't Know What to Do, Know Who to Call (text-to-911 in Dane County) · DAIS: About DAIS · Madison Metro Transit: Route A
Southwest
Arizona 1 city guide
Emergency: call 911.
- Domestic and dating violence, 24/7 (Phoenix, AZ): Sojourner Center 24-hour hotline, (602) 244-0089
City guide: Dating in Phoenix, AZ
Sources: City of Phoenix: Contact Police · Sojourner Center
New Mexico
Emergency: call 911.
- Domestic and dating violence, 24/7 (Santa Fe, NM): Esperanza Shelter 24-hour confidential hotline, 505-416-7184 or 888-473-5312
Sources: City of Santa Fe: Police Department · Esperanza Shelter
Oklahoma 1 city guide
Emergency: call 911.
- Domestic and dating violence, 24/7 (Oklahoma City, OK): YWCA Oklahoma City 24-hour hotline, 405-917-9922
City guide: Dating in Oklahoma City, OK
Sources: City of Oklahoma City: Police Department contact · YWCA Oklahoma City: Get help
Texas 2 city guides
Emergency: call 911. Travis County accepts texts to 911 when calling isn't possible.
- Sexual assault, domestic and dating violence, 24/7 (Austin, TX): The SAFE Alliance SAFEline, call 512-267-7233. You can also text SAFE to 737-888-7233.
- Domestic and dating violence, 24/7 (Dallas, TX): Genesis Women's Shelter & Support helpline, call or text 214-946-4357 (HELP)
City guides: Dating in Austin, TX · Dating in Dallas, TX
Sources: Travis County: Emergency FAQs · City of Austin: Police · The SAFE Alliance · CapMetro: Late-night services · Dallas County Commissioners Court District 1: Helpful numbers · Genesis Women's Shelter & Support
Mountain West
Colorado 1 city guide
Emergency: call 911.
- Sexual assault, 24/7 (Denver, CO): The Blue Bench hotline, 303-322-7273
City guide: Dating in Denver, CO
Sources: City and County of Denver: Police Department · The Blue Bench
Idaho
Emergency: call 911.
We're still verifying a local 24/7 line here. Until then, the national hotlines above answer around the clock, from anywhere in the U.S.
Montana
Emergency: call 911.
We're still verifying a local 24/7 line here. Until then, the national hotlines above answer around the clock, from anywhere in the U.S.
Nevada
Emergency: call 911.
We're still verifying a local 24/7 line here. Until then, the national hotlines above answer around the clock, from anywhere in the U.S.
Utah 1 city guide
Emergency: call 911.
- Sexual assault, 24/7 (Salt Lake City, UT): Rape Recovery Center 24-hour helpline, (801) 736-4356
City guide: Dating in Salt Lake City, UT
Sources: Salt Lake City Police Department · Rape Recovery Center
Wyoming
Emergency: call 911. Laramie County accepts texts to 911 from most major wireless carriers when calling isn't possible.
- Domestic violence and abuse support, 24/7 (Cheyenne, WY): Safehouse Services hotline, call 307-637-7233
Sources: Laramie County Combined Communications: Text 2 9-1-1 · Cheyenne Police Department · Safehouse Services
West Coast & Pacific
Alaska
Emergency: call 911.
- Sexual assault and domestic violence, 24/7 (Juneau, AK): AWARE crisis line, call (907) 586-1090 or toll-free (800) 478-1090
Sources: City and Borough of Juneau: Police · AWARE
California 2 city guides
Emergency: call 911. Los Angeles County accepts texts to 911 (in English) when calling isn't possible. Sacramento accepts texts to 911 when calling isn't possible.
- Sexual assault, domestic and dating violence, 24/7 (Los Angeles, CA): Peace Over Violence LA Rape & Battering Hotline, call 213-626-3393, 310-392-8381 or 626-793-3385
- Sexual assault, domestic and dating violence, 24/7 (Sacramento, CA): WEAVE 24-hour support line, call (916) 920-2952
City guides: Dating in Los Angeles, CA · Dating in Sacramento, CA
Sources: LAPD: Text to 9-1-1 · LAPD: Contact us · Peace Over Violence · LA Metro: Owl night service map · City of Sacramento: Police Department · Sacramento Police: Services for the deaf, hard of hearing or speech disabled (Text-to-911)
Hawaii 1 city guide
Emergency: call 911. Hawaii accepts texts to 911 statewide when calling isn't possible.
- Sexual assault, 24/7 (Honolulu, HI): Sex Abuse Treatment Center hotline, call (808) 524-7273
City guide: Dating in Honolulu, HI
Sources: Honolulu Police Department: Contact us · State of Hawaii 9-1-1 Board: Text to 9-1-1 brochure · Sex Abuse Treatment Center (Kapi'olani Medical Center) · City and County of Honolulu: Skyline departure schedule
Oregon
Emergency: call 911. Salem accepts texts to 911 when calling isn't possible.
- Sexual assault, domestic and dating violence, 24/7 (Salem, OR): Center for Hope & Safety 24-hour crisis line, call (503) 399-7722
Sources: City of Salem: Police · City of Salem: Text 911, call if you can, text if you can't · Center for Hope & Safety
Washington
Emergency: call 911. Washington accepts texts to 911 statewide when calling isn't possible.
- Sexual assault, domestic and dating violence, 24/7 (Olympia, WA): SafePlace 24-hour HelpLine, call (360) 754-6300 (TTY 711)
Sources: City of Olympia: Police Department · Washington Emergency Management Division: Texting 911 · SafePlace Olympia
Frequently asked questions
Is DateDish available in every state?
Yes. DateDish is open to daters anywhere in the U.S., free on iPhone and Android. It works alongside any dating app and with people you meet in real life.
Can I text 911 in every state?
Not everywhere. Texting 911 works in many states and counties, but not all. Each state below notes where we confirmed it on an official source. If you can safely call, calling 911 is always best.
What should I do if a date goes wrong?
If you're in danger, call 911. For support any time, the National Domestic Violence Hotline (1-800-799-7233, or text START to 88788) and the RAINN National Sexual Assault Hotline (1-800-656-4673) answer 24/7 from anywhere in the U.S.
Which cities have DateDish dating safety guides?
DateDish has local dating safety guides for Arlington, VA, Atlanta, GA, Austin, TX, Baltimore, MD, Boston, MA, Chicago, IL, Columbus, OH, Dallas, TX, Denver, CO, Honolulu, HI, Indianapolis, IN, Los Angeles, CA, Miami, FL, Nashville, TN, New York City, Oklahoma City, OK, Philadelphia, PA, Phoenix, AZ, Raleigh, NC, Richmond, VA, Sacramento, CA, Saint Paul, MN, Salt Lake City, UT, Washington, DC, with more coming.
How does DateDish make dating safer?
Every DateDish profile is verified with a selfie, Verified badges are backed by an ID check matched to the person's face, nobody can message you without a recent selfie you can see, and nothing is locked in until both people agree to the date. Built for women. Better for everyone.
Phone numbers and services were checked against official sources in October 2026. Services can change, so confirm with the provider if you're unsure. In an emergency, always call 911.