Date Requests
Choose the venue, day and time. Your match accepts or proposes a new plan, and once you agree, it's locked in. No ghosting, just real plans.
DateDish®: the dating transparency app for verified matches, real dates and honest feedback
Have you Dished? Real accountability through collective feedback. Date safer. Build trust. Connect smarter.
Have you Dished?
Online dating, finally clear.
DateDish® is the dating transparency app. It isn't just a place to leave reviews. It helps you secure the date: verify who you're meeting, send the date request, and give your Dish after, so your time is always well spent.
- Save time Skip the guesswork and the dead-end dates.
- Date safer Know who you're meeting before you go.
- See clearly Real feedback from real dates.
Inside the app
See DateDish in action.
How it works
Verify. Secure. Date. Dish.
Verify
Met them in person, online or on a dating app? Connect on DateDish and see who they really are. Every profile is verified with a selfie, Verified badges are backed by an ID check with face matching, and everyone uploads a recent selfie before they can message. Then check their Trust Score™ and Trust Badges before you commit your time.
Secure
Pick the venue, day and time and send the date request. They accept or suggest another day or spot. Once you both agree, the date is locked in. No ghosting, no BS.
Date
Show up with confidence. You know who's across the table and the plan is set, so all your energy goes into the connection.
Dish
Give your Dish: honest feedback from your experience, kept private with your date or shared with the community. Your call. Great date? Keep it going. Not a fit? A clean ending, and your time stays well spent.
The truth is out there.
Read real experiences before you meet. Date safer with DateDish. Verified dates and honest feedback, like "Felt safe and respected" or "Great listener, fun night!"
Features
Everything you need to date with clarity.
The Dish™
After the date, give your Dish: honest feedback on how it went. Keep it private between the two of you, or share it with the community. Your call.
Trust Score™
A multi-factor safety score that shows how someone communicates, behaves and shows up, before you invest your time.
Trust Badges
Earned through real dates, not bios: Respectful, Emotionally Aware, Clear Communicator and more.
Selfie to Chat
No one can message you until they've uploaded a recent selfie, taken within the last 30 days and separate from their profile photos, and you can see it. No bots, no catfish, no BS.
Wingman Validation™
Let the people who know them vouch for them. Real-world credibility from trusted contacts.
Dating on your terms
You decide if the date happens.
DateDish was built so women can date with confidence. Check that your match is real, see how they've shown up for others, and then say yes, suggest something else, or pass. No pressure, no explanation needed.
Know before you go
Every profile is verified with a selfie, and Verified badges are backed by an ID check matched to their face. Add a Trust Score™ and Trust Badges earned on real dates, and you know who you're meeting before you give up an evening.
Your yes, your plan
Accept a date request, propose a different day or venue, or decline. Nothing is locked in until you agree to it.
Real people only
No one can message you without a recent selfie, taken within the last 30 days, that you can see. No bots, no catfish, no old photos, no guessing who's on the other side.
Your voice counts
Give your Dish after the date. Keep it private or share it, and help other women in your city date smarter.
Built for women. Better for everyone.
The DateDish Community
Let your dating story be heard.
Help others by sharing it with the community. In the Community tab, daters swap real experiences, honest feedback and local recommendations, so everyone can navigate the dating world with more clarity.
- Share your storyThe good, the bad and the lessons learned along the way.
- Help someone elseYour experience could be exactly what another dater needs to hear.
- Get local insightSee dating advice and recommendations from people near you.
Loved by daters
Rated 5.0 on the App Store.
★★★★★
Finally, a Safety Tool That Makes Sense
“Online dating feels so much safer now. The Trust Score and verification features help me know who I'm actually talking to before agreeing to meet.”
★★★★★
Wish I Had This Years Ago
“Dating apps should have built something like this themselves. The Trust Badges like “Respectful” and “Clear Communicator” tell you everything you need to know.”
★★★★★
Simple, Smart, and Essential
“Takes the guesswork out of dating. I feel more confident and protected. Every single person using dating apps needs this.”
★★★★★
Love the Mutual Reflections
“Being able to share honest feedback after a date without it being public is genius. It keeps everyone accountable and respectful.”
A cultural shift, not another dating app.
- Real accountability: Dish feedback and reputational transparency.
- Trust-first: verified identities and behavioral signals.
- Safety as core: preventing negative experiences.
- Community trust: collective intelligence, not anonymous.
- Aligned incentives: better behavior, better outcomes.
- Transparent reviews: share and browse authentic dating experiences.
Wherever you meet
One trust layer for every connection.
Matched online, met at a party, or introduced by a friend? DateDish works alongside however you date. Verify who they are, request the date, and Dish after, all in one place.
Dating apps
Keep the apps you use. Bring your matches to DateDish to verify them first.
Real life
Met at a bar or an event? Look them up or invite them in seconds.
Friends & social
Set up by friends? Wingman Validation lets the people who know them vouch.
No swiping. No new profiles to chase. Just clarity.
Why DateDish? A cultural shift, not just another dating app.
Real accountability through Dish feedback and reputational transparency. Trust-first, with verified identities and behavioral signals. Safety as core, preventing negative experiences.
FAQ
Questions? We'll Dish.
Is DateDish a dating app?
Not exactly. DateDish is the transparency layer for your dating life. Keep meeting people on any dating app, or anywhere else, and use DateDish to verify them, request the date, and share feedback after.
Is DateDish good for women?
Yes. DateDish was built so women can date on their own terms. You can check that a match is selfie-verified or ID-verified, see their Trust Score and Trust Badges from real dates, and decide whether the date happens: accept, suggest a different day or venue, or decline. No one can message you without a selfie from the last 30 days that you can see, and Verified badges are backed by an ID check matched to their face.
How do date requests work on DateDish?
One of you picks the venue, the day and the time. The other accepts or suggests a different day or venue. Once you both agree, the date is locked in, and afterward you each give your Dish. No ghosting, no BS, just time and energy well spent.
Why do I need a selfie to chat on DateDish?
To keep bots, catfish and old photos out. Before you can message anyone, you upload a recent selfie, taken within the last 30 days and separate from your profile photos, and the people you chat with can see it. That way you always know the person you are talking to looks like they do today.
What is the DateDish Community?
The Community tab in the DateDish app is where users share dating experiences, give feedback, and connect with other users near them for local dating insight and recommendations.
How can I tell if a dating profile is real?
On DateDish, every member, men and women, verifies their profile with a selfie, and a Verified badge means their ID was checked and matched to their face with facial recognition. You can also see Wingman Validation™, where people who know them vouch for them. Their Trust Score™ and Trust Badges show how they have shown up on real dates.
Who sees my Dish?
You decide. After the date, give your Dish and keep it private between you and your date, or share it with the community to help other daters. It's your call.
Does DateDish work with my dating app?
Yes. DateDish works alongside any dating app, and with people you meet in real life, at a bar, or through friends.
Is DateDish free?
Yes. DateDish is free to download on iPhone and Android, with optional in-app purchases.
Have you Dished?
Download DateDish free on iPhone and Android. Your next date deserves clarity.
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Get in touch
For press, partnerships or investment inquiries, email us and we'll get back to you.
press@datedish.com